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Traditionally a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 has always been associated with a tryst. The heroine who comes to the tryst is dejected and cheated by her lover is called a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻. The hero sends a message and fixes up a meeting, which could be the place, time, either or both. The 苍腻测颈办腻 awaits him. He does not turn up, thus making her feel dejected or deceived. She is frustrated and is seen weeping and sometimes angry at the hero or her foolishness to have believed him.

She complains to her friends that he has not come. She blames herself for having believed his sugar coated words. She wails and raves about him. She is anxious and moans about her ill fortune. Sometimes she cries and faints at the rendezvous.

Bharata defines her thus:鈥�

啶�啶膏�嵿く啶距�� 啶︵�傕い啷� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶苦く啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啷囙し啷嵿�� 啶︵い啷嵿さ啶� 啶膏�權�嵿�曕�囙い啶�啷囙�� 啶� 啷�
啶ㄠぞ啶椸い啶� 啶曕ぞ啶班ぃ啷囙え啷囙す 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啶む�� 啶膏ぞ 啶�啶掂�囙い啷� 啷�

yasy膩岣� d奴t墨 priya岣� pre峁�ya datv膩 sa峁卥etameva ca |
n膩gata岣� k膩ra峁噀neha vipralabdh膩 tu s膩 bhavet ||^[1]

She is one who is deceived by her lover in spite of the female messenger confirming the appointment with the hero. Here the word 鈥�厂补峁卥别迟补尘鈥� could mean both time and place. Since there is no example to establish the situation and since tradition has always associated her to a tryst; it can be safely assumed that the hero does not come to the tryst.

Different varieties of definitions for a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 are found as below:

1. Associating her to a meeting (time);
2. Associating her to a tryst;
3. Implying her association to a tryst by an example;
4. Associated to both;
5. Implying either or both鈥搖nclear;

1 Associating her to a meeting (time)

The 顿补艣补谤奴辫补办补 falls to the first category鈥撯�楾ime鈥�

啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啷嬥�曕�嵿い啶膏ぎ啶�啶�啶�啷嵿ぐ啶距お啷嵿い啷囙そ啶むた啶掂た啶�啶距え啶苦い啶� 啷�

vipralabdhoktasamayamapr膩pte'tivim膩nit膩 ||^[2]

Here the words 鈥�Samayam Apr膩pte鈥� clearly show that it was an appointed time which he did not keep up.

2 Associating her to a tryst

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补惫颈濒腻蝉颈苍颈 indicates the tryst.

啶︵い啷嵿さ啶� 啶膏�權�嵿�曕�囙い啶� 啶膏�嵿さ啶�啶� 啶むい啷嵿ぐ 啶� 啶�啶むた啶班�佮お啶�啶距い啶� 啷�

datv膩 sa峁卥eta峁� svaya峁� tatra na patirupay膩ti |
vipralabdhik膩tatpriy膩 gatv膩 sukha峁� jah膩ti ||^[3]

Here the 鈥�tatra鈥� clearly indicates the place, thus affirming the idea of 鈥�厂补峁卥别迟补尘鈥� being the tryst.

3 Implying her association to a tryst by an example

Authors like Vidhy膩n膩tha (笔谤补迟腻辫补谤耻诲谤墨测补), 痴颈艣惫补苍腻迟丑补 (厂腻丑颈迟测补诲补谤辫补峁嚹�), Rudra峁��� (艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补迟颈濒补办补尘), Vijayavar峁嚹� (艢峁涐箙驳腻谤腻谤峁嘺惫补肠补苍诲谤颈办腻) and others imply the tryst through their examples. Since the usage of the word 鈥�厂补峁卥别迟补鈥� could mean just the time or the place of the meeting, there is a need to rely on the examples to get an exact picture.

An example from 厂腻丑颈迟测补诲补谤辫补峁嚹� and 顿补艣补谤奴辫补办补 -

啶夃い啷嵿い啶苦し啷嵿�� 啶︵�傕い啶� 啶�啶距ぎ啷� 啶�啶距ぎ啷� 啶�啶距い啶膏�嵿い啶ムぞ啶�啶� 啶ㄠぞ啶�啶距い啶� 啷�
啶�啶距そ啶む�� 啶�啶班ぎ啶�啶� 啶溹��啶掂�囙�溹�嵿�溹��啶掂た啶むえ啶距ぅ啷� 啶�啶掂�囙い啷嵿い啶膏�嵿く啶距�� 啷�

utti峁ａ弓ha d奴ti y膩mo y膩mo y膩tastath膩pi n膩y膩ta岣� |
y膩'ta岣� paramapi j墨vejj墨vitan膩tho bhavettasy膩岣� ||^[4]

The heroine is sitting in the meeting place, waiting for long for the arrival of the hero. He does not turn up. She is dejected and tells her friend who was the messenger, thus鈥揙 messenger! Get up. Let us leave. The time for his arrival, has gone long back. Yet he has not come. Here after, he will be the lord of life (闯墨惫补苍腻迟丑补) only to the girl who lives after all this (indicating her distaste to continue living).

The 搁补蝉腻谤峁嘺惫补蝉耻诲丑腻办补谤补 implies the tryst through the example:

啶氞え啷嵿う啷嵿ぐ啶�啶苦ぎ啷嵿が啶�啷佮う啶�啶距う啷嵿ぐ啶苦ぎ啶距�椸い啶� 啶�啶多�嵿く 啶む�囙�� 啶膏�栢��! 啶掂�炧�嵿�氞た啶む�� 啶掂く啶�啷� 啷�
啶呧い啷嵿ぐ 啶曕た啶� 啶ㄠた啶溹�椸�冟す啶� 啶ㄠく啶膏�嵿�� 啶�啶距�� 啶むい啷嵿ぐ 啶掂ぞ 啶曕た啶�啶苦い啶� 啶掂た啶掂�嵿く啶ム�� 啶掂ぇ啷傕�� 啷�

candrabimbamuday膩drim膩gata峁� pa艣ya tena sakhi! va帽cit膩 vayam |
atra ki峁� nijag峁沨a峁� nayasva m膩峁� tatra v膩 kimiti vivyathe 惫补诲丑奴岣� ||^[5]

鈥淭he moon has reached the peak of the 鲍诲补测腻诲谤颈 Mountain. See O! Sakhi we have been deceived! What if we are here or there! Take me to my house鈥濃�搇ike this the bride suffered.

Here the statement 鈥榯ake me to my house鈥� clearly indicates that they have gone to a tryst. The word 鈥�惫补诲丑奴鈥� indicates a 厂惫墨测腻.

4 Associating both

The 叠丑腻惫补辫谤补办腻艣补 bridges the time and place quotient.

啶膏ぎ啶�啶� 啶氞ぞ啶�啶� 啶膏�權�嵿�曕�囙い啶� 啶︵い啷嵿い啷嵿さ啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啷囙し啷嵿�� 啶� 啶︵�傕い啶苦�曕ぞ啶�啷� 啷�
啶呧え啶距�椸い啶多�嵿�氞�囙う啷嵿さ啷嵿く啶距じ啶權�嵿�椸ぞ啶︵�嵿さ啶苦お啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啶む�� 啶膏ぞ 啶膏�嵿ぎ啷冟い啶� 啷�

samaya峁� c膩pi sa峁卥eta峁� dattv膩 pre峁�ya ca d奴tik膩m |
an膩gata艣cedvy膩sa峁単膩dvipralabdh膩 tu s膩 sm峁泃膩 ||^[6]

The 苍腻测颈办腻, whose hero sends her the meeting time and place, through the messenger and does not come due to his union with another lady, is called a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻.

5 Unclear鈥揺ither or both

It is not clear whether 碍腻惫测腻濒补峁卥腻谤补 is indicating time, place or both. It has to be used according to the situation.^[7]

啶�啶膏�嵿く啶� 啶溹��啶掂た啶むえ啶距ぅ啶� 啶膏�傕�曕�囙い啶曕ぎ啶距い啷嵿ぎ啶ㄠ�堗さ 啶︵い啷嵿い啷嵿さ啶距お啶� 啷�
啶ㄠぞ啶�啶距い啷嵿く啷佮お啶距�椸い啶距く啶距�� 啶むじ啷嵿く啶距ぎ啶苦い啶� 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啷囙く啶�啷� 啷�

yasy膩 j墨vitan膩tha岣� sa峁僰etakam膩tmanaiva dattv膩pi |
n膩y膩tyup膩gat膩y膩峁� tasy膩miti vipralabdheyam ||^[8]

狈腻峁瓂补诲补谤辫补峁嘺鈥檚 definition is also not clear whether it is indicating the time or the place.

啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啶膏じ啶傕�曕�囙い 啶�啷嵿ぐ啷囙し啷嵿�� 啶︵�傕い啷�啶�啶ㄠぞ啶椸い啷� 啷�
啶�啶む�嵿く啶掂た啶むた 啶膏ぐ啷嵿さ啷囙し啷� 啶膏�嵿い啷嵿ぐ啷�啶�啷囙う啷囙し啷� 啶膏�嵿ぎ啶班ぃ啷�啶�啶�啷� 啷�
啶む�囙�� 啶曕ぞ啶班�嵿く啶む�� 啶曕�冟い啶膏�傕�曕�囙い啷� 啶︵�傕い啷�啶� 啶掂ぞ 啶�啷嵿ぐ啷囙し啷嵿く啶距え啶距�椸い啷� 啶�啶む�嵿く啷屸�權さ啶苦お啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶锯�� 啶囙い啶� 啶膏ぎ啷嵿が啶ㄠ�嵿ぇ啶� 啷�

vipralabdh膩 sasa峁僰eta pre峁�ya d奴t墨man膩gate ||
patyaviti sarve峁�u str墨bhede峁�u smara峁嚹珁am |
tena k膩ryata岣� k峁泃asa峁僰ete d奴t墨峁� v膩 pre峁�y膩n膩gate patyau鈥檝ipralabdh膩鈥� iti sambandha岣� ||^[9]

Though having sent the messenger the husband has not turned up due to some work, that 苍腻测颈办腻 is called 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻.

6 The Debate

啶膏�權�嵿�曕�囙い啶ㄠた啶曕�囙い啶ㄠ�� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶苦く啶むぎ啶�啶ㄠさ啶侧�嬥�曕�嵿�� 啶膏ぎ啶距�曕�佮げ啶灌�冟う啶�啶� 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啷�

sa峁卥etaniketane priyatamamanavalokya sam膩kulah峁沝ay膩 vipralabdh膩 |^[10]

The heroine who is troubled at heart as she is unable to see her lord at the rendezvous is called a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻, says 搁补蝉补尘补帽箩补谤墨. 

Here the 鈥�厂补峁卥别迟补 Niketane鈥� clearly expresses the tryst.

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补尘补帽箩补谤墨 refutes 搁补蝉补尘补帽箩补谤墨鈥檚 definition. He says a 厂惫墨测补 or a 厂腻尘腻苍测腻 will not go to a tryst to meet their lover. They wait at their home for him to come and it is only a 笔补谤补办墨测腻 who will be willing to go to a rendezvous as her home might not be the best place for union. 

It states the 笔谤补迟腻辫补谤耻诲谤墨测补鈥檚 definition of 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 to justify.

啶曕�嵿さ啶氞た啶む�� 啶膏�傕�曕�囙い啶�啶距さ啷囙う啷嵿く 啶︵く啶苦い啷� 啶ㄠぞ啶� 啶掂�炧�嵿�氞た啶む�� 啶膏�嵿ぎ啶班ぞ啶班�嵿い啶� 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啷囙い啶� 啶曕げ啶距さ啶苦う啷嵿き啶苦�� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶曕��啶班�嵿い啷嵿く啶む�� 啷�

kvacit sa峁僰etam膩vedya dayite n膩tha va帽cit膩 smar膩rt膩 vipralabdheti kal膩vidbhi岣� prak墨rtyate ||^[11]

Experts in the field of arts say that 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 is one who comes for the meeting and gets cheated by her lover and is afflicted by pangs of love.

He notes the idea of 鈥�痴补帽肠补苍腻鈥�. He devotes some special attention to the concept and comes up with his own definition of鈥�

啶掂�炧�嵿�氞え啶距お啷嵿ぐ啶�啷佮�曕�嵿い啶掂た啶班す啶掂�囙う啶ㄠぞ啶掂い啷� 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啷�

va帽can膩prayuktavirahavedan膩vat墨 vipralabdh膩 |^[12]

A 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 is one who is in viraha consequent of the disappointment caused by the lover.

A similar concept is presented by authors of 厂腻丑颈迟测补诲补谤辫补峁嚹�, 艢峁涐箙驳腻谤腻谤峁嘺惫补肠补苍诲谤颈办腻 and 顿补艣补谤奴辫补办补. They highlight the feeling of insult at not being met by the lover. Words like nit膩nta avam膩nit膩 and ati vim膩nit膩 in the definitions to prove the extent of insult are often found.

啶ㄠぞ啶椸い啷� 啶ㄠぞ啶�啶曕�囙�椸�囙す啶� 啶膏�傕�曕�囙い啶掂た啶粪く啶� 啶�啶︵�� 啷�
啶むう啶距さ啶�啶距え啶苦い啶� 啶ㄠぞ啶班た 啶掂た啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧が啷嵿ぇ啶� 啶�啶む�� 啶�啶ム�� 啷�

n膩gate n膩yakegeha峁� sa峁僰etavi峁�aya峁� yad膩 |
tad膩vam膩nit膩 n膩ri vipralabdh膩 mat膩 yath膩 ||^[13]

痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 is one who is insulted by the signal or message of the hero when he does not turn up.

7 Definition Conclusion

The debate that a 厂惫墨测腻 or a 蝉腻尘腻苍测腻 will not go to the tryst is futile. If the hero is a 顿补办峁�i峁嘺 and he sends a message to the 蝉惫墨测腻 heroine to meet him at some place, would not the heroine go, even if it is not her turn? When verses depict them as unable to spend time together inspite of their yearning; due to the elders, children or household duties; situations where the hero sends for her to come to a secluded spot to spend some time away from the household could well be imagined.

Likewise many situations are found, where the 苍腻测补办补 goes to the house of a 厂腻尘腻苍测腻, in disguise, so that nobody sees him go there. Thus it can be perceived that the 苍腻测补办补 calls the 厂腻尘腻苍测腻 to a secluded place to be with her without others noticing him.

Songs indicating a 厂腻尘腻苍测腻 coming to meet her hero at a tryst like the following is often found. Though the 苍腻测颈办腻 of this particular song is an 础产丑颈蝉腻谤颈办腻, if she does not find him at the tryst she will become a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻.

Padam[14] Language鈥�Telugu	颁辞尘辫辞蝉别谤鈥�碍峁Ｄ搕谤补箩帽补 Meaning
笔补濒濒补惫墨 Piluvana峁僷e nann墨v膿岣穉 pr膿mam墨rag膩 nipu岣島 Celiya muvvag艒p膩lu岣島 cittamu ranjilla n膿岣島	O dear friend! My heart is overjoyed as Muvvagopala has sent for me today with over powering love.
颁补谤补峁嘺尘 Viribo峁噄r艒 rammani virula ja岣峚nu 箩耻峁�峁�颈 Paruvamaina n膩峁璱ki pai岣峣 id膿 nanucu Maruvaku m墨 尘腻峁璦 mana 办颈诲诲补谤颈办墨 辫奴峁璦 ceruku vilutu岣嵞� 蝉腻办峁�i celi yanina n膩 蝉腻尘颈	He summoned me and coiled flowers on my plait and said that it would be gold when I ripe. My lord kept the sugarcane bowed cupid as witness and took a sacred oath on that very day.
Emmek膩岣島 n膿nu nenasina cinan膩岣嵞� Sammatig膩 nokac艒峁璦 caduvu 肠耻峁囜笉补驳腻 Pammina v膿岣島kat艒 bh膩ma n墨vu 辫谤辞耻岣峢补颈迟脓 Kammaviltuni 办脓岣穒 galas膿 mannadi nijamai	In my teens when I met him under the roof of the same teacher, his whisper to me that 鈥渨e would be uniting when you mature鈥� which made me surge with pleasure, has come true today.
Yelam膩vi t艒峁璦l艒 nimponda nokan膩岣島 Yelami gouri 辫奴箩补 salupu肠耻峁囜笉补驳腻 Ala muvva g艒p膩lu岣峚gu venka峁�膿艣u岣島 Kaluvala 艣ayyapai galas膿 mannadi nijamai	One day when I was engaged in the Gauri 辫奴箩补 in a mango grove, whatever was said to me by lord Venkatesa who is the same as Muvva Gopala that 鈥渨e would unite on a bed of lilies鈥� has come true today.

Thus it can be reasonably concluded that a tryst could be used for all types of 苍腻测颈办腻s. Though the meeting is an important aspect of a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻; it may not be the only attribute of hers. The dejection of having been cheated is also of interest. Thus it can be concluded that a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 is one who has an appointment with her lover and feels insulted or dejected when the appointment is not met. She could well be a follow up of an 础产丑颈蝉腻谤颈办腻. 

Thus, the definition must be like this:

啶�啷嵿ぐ啶苦く啶� 啶曕�冟い啷嵿さ啶距お啶� 啶膏�權�嵿�曕�囙い啶� 啶�啶膏�嵿く啶� 啶ㄠぞ啶�啶距い啶� 啶膏え啷嵿え啶苦ぇ啶苦ぎ啷� 啷�

priya岣� k峁泃v膩pi sa峁卥eta峁� yasy膩 n膩y膩ti sannidhim |
vipralabdh膩 tu s膩 j帽ey膩 nit膩ntamavam膩nit膩 ||^[15]

The lover though having made the appointment, does not come to the heroine鈥檚 proximity, thus making her feel extremely insulted. She is known as a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻.

The question of how she is different from a 痴颈谤补丑辞迟办补峁囜弓丑颈迟腻 would arise now. A 痴颈谤补丑辞迟办补峁囜弓丑颈迟腻 misses her lover and feels anxious for him, while a 痴颈辫谤补濒补产诲丑腻 feels cheated. Her ego is hurt and she is thinking about herself than about him or the union. She feels insulted and deceived.

Footnotes and references:

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[1]:

狈腻峁瓂补艣腻蝉迟谤补, XXIV. ccxiv. 675.

[2]:

顿补艣补谤奴辫补办补, II. xxvi. 268.

[3]:

Shringaravilasini, lxxxiii. 30.

[4]:

顿补艣补谤奴辫补办补, II. 268; 厂腻丑颈迟测补 顿补谤辫补峁嘺, III. 203.

[5]:

搁补蝉腻谤峁嘺惫补蝉耻诲丑腻办补谤补, I. 35.

[6]:

叠丑腻惫补辫谤补办腻艣补na, IV. clx. 139.

[7]:

This verse is considered to be an interpolation.

[8]:

碍腻惫测腻濒补峁卥腻谤补, XII. 387.

[9]:

狈腻峁瓂补诲补谤辫补峁嘺, IV. xxiii. 381.

[10]:

搁补蝉补尘补帽箩补谤墨, 138.

[11]:

笔谤补迟腻辫补谤耻诲谤墨测补, I. xlvii. 21.

[12]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补尘补帽箩补谤墨, 22.

[13]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤峁嘺惫补 颁补苍诲谤颈办腻, IV. xciii. 35.

[14]:

Muvvagopala Padavali, 4.

[15]:

厂腻丑颈迟测补 顿补谤辫补峁嘺, III. lxxxiii. 203.