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When the 苍腻测颈办腻 is angry, it is the duty of the hero to appease her. He should use the following methods of appeasement (anunaya) namely:

1) 蝉腻尘补,
2) bheda,
3) 诲腻苍补,
4) nati,
5) 耻辫别办峁�a and
6) 谤补蝉腻苍迟补谤补.

啶膏ぞ啶� 啶�啷囙う啷嬥そ啶� 啶︵ぞ啶ㄠ�炧�嵿�� 啶ㄠい啷嵿く啷佮お啷囙�曕�嵿し啷� 啶班じ啶距え啷嵿い啶班ぎ啷� 啷�
啶むう啷嵿き啶權�嵿�椸ぞ啶� 啶�啶むた啶� 啶曕�佮ぐ啷嵿く啷嵿く啶距い啷� 啶粪ぁ啷佮お啶距く啶距え啶苦い啶� 啶曕�嵿ぐ啶�啶距い啷� 啷�

蝉腻尘补 bhedo'tha 诲腻苍补帽ca natyupek峁�e 谤补蝉腻苍迟补谤补m |
tadbha峁単膩ya pati岣� kuryy膩t 峁�a岣島p膩y膩niti kram膩t ||^[1]

These methods of appeasement (anunaya) are to be used by the 苍腻测颈办腻 if and when needed towards her hero. 罢辞濒办腻辫辫颈测补尘 says that a husband is entitled to be angry if his wife is too obstinate to yield to his sweet persuasion and when he, mistakes the time and place of meeting suggested by the heroine.

鈥�耻峁嘺谤辫辫耻-varai y-i峁焌ppi峁塽帽 cey-ku峁焛 pi岣籥ippi峁塽m
pulattal-u m-奴峁璦濒-u峁� ki岣籥v艒峁� k-uriya.^[2]

Even a 苍腻测颈办腻 could employ these to appease her hero. She should not disregard her hero when he is angry鈥攕ays 艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补 tilaka:

啶囙い啷嵿く啷佮お啶距く啶距え啷嵿お啷嵿ぐ啶�啷佮�炧�嵿�溹��啶� 啶ㄠぞ啶�啶苦�曕ぞ啶�啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶苦く啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶む�� 啷�
啶曕�嵿ぐ啷佮う啷嵿�樴�� 啶ㄠ�嬥お啷囙�曕�嵿し啶む�� 啶曕た啶� 啶氞た啶む�嵿い啶む�嵿ぐ啶距え啷嵿く啶む�嵿�曕ぞ啶班ぃ啶� 啶�啶掂�囙い啷� 啷�

ityup膩y膩nprayu帽j墨ta 苍腻测颈办腻pi priya峁� prati |
krudgha峁� nopek峁�ate ki峁� cittatr膩nyatk膩ra峁嘺峁� bhavet ||^[3]

1 厂腻尘补鈥攚eet talking

啶︵�佮ぐ啷嵿さ啶苦え啷�啶む�嬥そ啶�啶� 啶�啶距げ啷嵿く啷嬥そ啶灌�� 啶む�嵿さ啶�啶� 啶膏�佮き啷嵿ぐ啷� 啶曕�嵿し啶�啶距き啷冟い啶� 啷�
啶囙い啶� 啶掂ぞ啶曕�嵿く啶� 啶�啶掂�囙う啷嵿く啶む�嵿�� 啶むい啷嵿じ啶距ぎ啷囙い啶� 啶ㄠた啶椸う啷嵿く啶む�� 啷�

durvi苍墨to'pi p膩lyo'ha峁� tvay膩 subhru k峁�am膩bh峁泃膩 |
iti v膩kya峁� bhavedyatra tats膩meti nigadyate ||^[4]

厂腻尘补 is when the hero appeases the 苍腻测颈办腻 thus鈥揺ven if I am a bad person, o! beautiful armed one; I am worth being protected (embracing). Appeasing a 惭耻驳诲丑腻 苍腻测颈办腻 also an example of 厂腻尘补.

啶�啷佮�椸�嵿ぇ啶距ぎ啶ㄠ�佮え啶�啶む�嵿く啷囙さ 啶�啷冟う啷傕お啶距く啷囙�� 啶膏ぞ啶ㄠ�嵿い啷嵿さ啶�啶ㄠ�� 啷�
啶ㄠぞ啶むた啶�啷�啶むた啶曕ぐ啷堗ぐ啷嵿さ啶距�曕�嵿く啷堗ぐ啷嵿え啶苦ぐ啷嵿が啶ㄠ�嵿ぇ啷堗ぐ啷嵿が啶距げ啶�啷�啶粪た啶む�堗�� 啷�

mugdh膩manunayatyeva m峁沝奴p膩yena s膩ntvayan |
n膩tibh墨tikarairv膩kyairnirbandhairb膩labh墨峁�itai岣� ||^[5]

The Hero appeases the 惭耻驳诲丑腻 苍腻测颈办腻 by soft words. He does not use harsh threatening sentences, instead speaks to her like a child.

Example:

啶膏ぐ啶むた 啶膏ぐ啶膏じ啷嵿い啷�啶班ぞ啶︵�囙し啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶�啶︵�嵿き啷嵿ぐ啶�啶班ぞ啶掂げ啷� 啶膏�佮ぎ啷佮�栢た 啶掂た啶�啷佮�栢た 啶�啶︵�嵿ぎ啷� 啶�啶ㄠ�嵿く啷� 啶むさ啶距じ啷嵿く啶�啶苦お啶距じ啶�啶� 啷�
啶囙い啶� 啶ㄠた啶椸う啶苦い啷� 啶曕た啶� 啶氞た啶︵�嵿き啷�啶む�嵿�� 啶掂た啶掂ぐ啷嵿い啶苦い啶曕�� 啶оぐ啶� 啶掂う啶ㄠ�曕ぎ啶侧�� 啶�啶距げ啶� 啶�啶班�嵿い啷嵿ぐ啶� 啶氞た啶班�� 啶�啶班た啶氞�佮ぎ啷嵿が啶苦い啶� 啷�

sarati sarasast墨r膩de峁Ｄ� bhramadbhramar膩val墨 sumukhi vimukhi padme manye tav膩syapip膩say膩 |
iti nigadite ki峁� cidbh墨tya vivartitaka峁� dhar膩 vadanakamale b膩l膩 bhartr膩 cira峁� paricumbit膩 ||^[6]

O! beautiful faced one! I think this one bee from the collection of bees which were roaming around the bank of the tank, has left the lotus to drink the nectar from your mouth. Just as the husband said thus, the innocent one out of fear turned her shoulders around and the husband kissed her lotus lips for a long time.

2 Bheda鈥擳rying to convince through friends

啶�啶膏�嵿ぎ啶苦え啷嵿お啶班た啶溹え啷� 啶むじ啷嵿く啶距�� 啶膏ぎ啶距さ啶班�嵿�溹�嵿�� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶膏ぞ啶︵た啶むぎ啷� 啷�
啶む�囙え啷堗�� 啶侧き啶む�� 啶曕ぞ啶ㄠ�嵿い啶距�� 啶曕ぞ啶ㄠ�嵿い啷� 啶�啷囙う啶� 啶� 啶夃�氞�嵿く啶む�� 啷�

yasminparijane tasy膩岣� sam膩varjya pras膩ditam |
tenaiva labhate k膩nt膩峁� k膩nto bheda岣� sa ucyate ||^[7]

When the hero tries to appease the 苍腻测颈办腻 by attracting the people liked by her and making them mediate between them, then it is called bheda.

Padam[8] Language -Telugu 搁腻驳补 -碍腻尘产丑艒箩颈	Composer -碍峁Ｄ搕谤补箩帽补
Intadayagala d膩nin膿la r膩vadda峁囜弓i? venta nirdayur膩lav膿 Santatamu m膩 muvvag艒p膩la 蝉腻尘颈 苍墨 Sarasatvamule yencun膿 O celiyar艒!	Why have you asked him not to come to you? Such a compassionate one is he. O my dear friend Lord Muvva Gopala always recollects your pleasing ways.
Veladi 苍墨 驳耻峁嘺 尘补尘峁泃补尘补苍颈 ni峁囜笉ukoluvul艒 v膿n艒岣丰阜a goniy膩岣島n膿! Palum膩ru 苍墨ku sari 谤奴辫补惫补迟颈 l膿danucu b膩sa j膿sedananiyen膿 Telasi padiv膿la janmamulaku 苍墨 峁涐箛amu d墨rcuk艒 j膩lananen膿 Celiya tanam墨da 苍墨valukajendinadi t膩 C膿sina p膩pa尘补苍别苍脓! 艑 celiyar艒!	In an open assembly he speaks of you in umpteen ways. He praises your nature to be as sweet as nectar. Many a times he swears that there is nobody to equal you in beauty. Often he proclaims that his indebtedness to you will not be redeemed even after being born thousands of times. O dear friend! Your anger against him, he said, is only because of the past sins commited by him.
Munu 苍墨du kemm艒vi 迟脓苍别 l膩naga br膩峁嘺 Mulu nilici yunna vanen膿! Ghanamaina viraha v膿danak艒rvaj膩la nika 办腻肠颈 谤补办峁�i苍肠耻 尘补苍别苍脓! Tanuvu tanasomme yiccakamu 驳腻诲墨尘腻峁璦 Tana cittamerugu nanen膿 Vanaj膩k峁�i nanaga banil膿du n膩p膩lidaivamu Karu峁嘺dappe nanen膿! O celiyar艒	He said he is able to survive this life, only in the hope of tasting honey from your coral lips. He is unable to live without you and pleads you to save him as his body is given to you and even your mind is aware of that. He promises that his words are genuine. He also said that it is only fate that is to be blamed and not you, the lotus eyed one.
Mundu m膩 muvvag艒p膩la r膩 r膩! Yanina Muddu t膩maruva nanen膿 Kandarpu岣峣kan膿mi c膿sun艒 yeruga m膩 kalikit艒 delupu 尘补苍别苍脓! Mande m膿lamuna n膿n膩岣峣na 尘腻峁璦 tana madinunca valavadanen膿 Yindu mukhi nanug奴岣峣 l膩lincina soga Sentanucu dalatu nanen膿! O celiyar艒	He says that he cannot forget the times that you called him by name Muvva Gopala and honoured him with your kisses. He would not know what more torments cupid has in store for him. He requested to inform you that what ever he might have said as a joke need not be taken to heart. He remembers you having caressed him with your moon like face.

3 顿腻苍补鈥擥iving gifts to appease

啶呧げ啶傕�曕ぞ啶班ぞ啶︵た啶曕�� 啶︵う啷嵿く啶距え啷嵿え啶距く啶曕�� 啶�啶む�嵿ぐ 啶む�佮し啷嵿�� 啶�啷� 啷�
啶夃う啷嵿う啶苦ざ啷嵿く 啶曕ぞ啶班ぃ啶� 啶曕た啶� 啶氞た啶︵�嵿う啶距え啶� 啶むじ啷嵿く啶距�氞�嵿�� 啶むう啷嵿く啶ムぞ 啷�

ala峁僰膩r膩dika峁� dady膩nn膩yako yatra tu峁ａ弓a ye |
uddi艣ya k膩ra峁嘺峁� ki峁� cid诲腻苍补峁� tasy膩cca tadyath膩 ||^[9]

When the hero tries to appease the heroine through gifts like ornaments and the like, then it is called 诲腻苍补.

闯腻惫补岣穒 Language -Telugu 搁腻驳补-P奴rvikaly膩峁噄; 罢腻岣穉-膧诲颈 颁辞尘辫辞蝉别谤鈥�笔补峁�峁�腻产丑颈谤腻尘补测测补	Though this particular song does not depict the hero actually giving her gifts or promising her to do so, this song is indicative of the fact that he had promised her earlier.
Pallavi N墨 尘腻峁璦l膿 m膩yanur膩 蝉腻尘颈 balkar膩	What happened to what ever you said? 厂腻尘颈! Please tell me.
Anupallavi 膾m膿m艒 b艒dhi帽ci nanu 膿m膩ra c膿s膿mur膩	So many things you had promised me and now, you have cheated me.
颁补谤补峁嘺 1 Cakkani 蝉腻尘颈vale cekkili nokkirava Mukk膿ra 苍墨 kicc膿na峁噄 峁璦kkulac膿 cokki帽cina	You, the nice lord pinched my cheeks and said you will give me diamond nose ring and cleverly charmed me.
颁补谤补峁嘺 2 惭腻峁璱 m膩峁璱ki maru尘腻峁璦l膩岣峚 pilcucu P膩tilu 苍墨 pampenani t膩t艒峁璦 nu峁��� 苍墨峁璱na	Again and again to converse with me you invited me and bragged and boasted that you will send a bracelet to me.
颁补谤补峁嘺 3 J膩lamu j膿si kalal膿ci rattan膩la jumuk墨 jata pamp膿nani t膩岣穉vana 濒艒濒补 ala	O The lord 罢腻岣穉vana濒艒濒补! You tricked me to unite with you by saying you will get me a pair of gemmed jumkis.

4 Nati鈥擣alling at her feet

啶曕�囙さ啶侧�� 啶︵�堗え啷嵿く啶�啶距げ啶�啷嵿が啷嵿�� 啶�啶距う啶�啶距い啷� 啶ㄠい啶苦ぐ啷嵿ぎ啶むぞ 啷�
啶呧き啷�啶粪�嵿�熰ぞ 啶膏ぞ 啶�啷冟ざ啶� 啶膏�嵿い啷嵿ぐ啷�啶｀ぞ啶� 啶侧げ啶苦い啶� 啶� 啶�啶掂�囙う啷嵿く啶ムぞ 啷�

kevala峁� dainyam膩lambya p膩dap膩to natirmat膩 |
abh墨峁ａ弓膩 s膩 bh峁浥沘峁� str墨峁嚹佱箖 lalit膩 ca bhavedyath膩 ||^[10]

Becoming miserable, when the hero falls at her feet, then it is called nati. Women feel nice and like this kind of action.

Example: 

啶膏�佮い啶ㄠ��! 啶溹す啶苦す啶� 啶�啷屶え啶� 啶�啶多�嵿く 啶�啶距う啶距え啶む�� 啶�啶距�� 啶� 啶栢げ啷� 啶むさ 啶曕う啶距�氞た啶む�嵿�曕�嬥お 啶忇さ啶傕さ啶苦ぇ啷嬥そ啶�啷傕い啷� 啷�
啶囙い啶� 啶ㄠた啶椸う啶むた 啶ㄠぞ啶ム�� 啶むた啶班�嵿く啶椸ぞ啶�啷�啶侧た啶むぞ啶曕�嵿し啷嵿く啶� 啶ㄠく啶ㄠ�溹げ啶�啶ㄠげ啷嵿お啶� 啶�啷佮�曕�嵿い啶�啷佮�曕�嵿い啶� 啶� 啶曕た啶� 啶氞た啶む�� 啷�

sutanu! jahihi mauna峁� pa艣ya p膩诲腻苍补ta峁� m膩峁� na khalu tava kad膩citkopa eva峁僾idho'bh奴t |
iti nigadati n膩the tiryag膩m墨lit膩k峁�y膩 nayanajalamanalpa峁� muktamukta峁� na ki峁� cit ||^[11]

鈥淥 beautiful bodied one! Leave your anger and look at me who has fallen at your feet. You have never been so angry with me鈥�. Having been told like this by the lover, the 苍腻测颈办腻 obliquely closed her eyes and started shedding tears but did not say anything.

5 鲍辫别办峁�a鈥擠isregarding her

啶�啷嵿ぐ啶膏ぞ啶︵え啶掂た啶оた啶� 啶む�嵿く啶曕�嵿い啷嵿さ啶� 啶掂ぞ啶曕�嵿く啷堗ぐ啶ㄠ�嵿く啶距ぐ啷嵿ぅ啶膏�傕�氞�曕�堗�� 啷�
啶�啶膏�嵿ぎ啶苦え啷嵿お啷嵿ぐ啶膏ぞ啶︵�嵿く啶む�� 啶�啷嬥し啶苦う啷佮お啷囙�曕�嵿し啶� 啶膏ぞ 啶�啶む�� 啶�啶ム�� 啷�

pras膩danavidhi峁� tyaktv膩 v膩kyairany膩rthas奴cakai岣� |
yasminpras膩dyate yo峁�idupek峁Ｄ� s膩 mat膩 yath膩 ||^[12]

When the hero stops trying to appease her and makes sentences indicating otherwise, then it is called 耻辫别办峁�a

Example: 

啶膏�嵿さ啶氞ぐ啶｀お啷�啶∴ぞ啶ㄠ�佮ぎ啶苦い啶む�嵿さ啶ㄠ�嵿ぎ啷屶げ啶苦ぐ啷佮�溹ぞ啶掂た啶ㄠ��啶むぎ啶距い啷嵿じ啶班�嵿く啷嵿く啶� 啷�
啶呧お啶班ぞ啶︵�嵿�樴ぞ 啶膏�佮き啶�! 啶む�嵿さ啶距�� 啶膏�嵿さ啶�啶�啶灌ぎ啶ㄠ�佮え啷囙い啷佮ぎ啶距く啶距い啶� 啷�

svacara峁嘺p墨岣嵞乶umitatvanmauliruj膩vi苍墨tam膩tsaryy膩 |
apar膩dgh膩 subhaga! tv膩峁� svayamahamanunetum膩y膩t膩 ||^[13]

6 搁补蝉腻苍迟补谤补鈥�Trying to change the mood

啶呧�曕じ啷嵿ぎ啶距�溹�嵿�溹ぞ啶�啶む�� 啶�啶む�嵿ぐ 啶�啶�啶灌ぐ啷嵿し啶距う啶苦き啶距さ啶ㄠぞ 啷�
啶膏�嬥そ啶�啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶膏�權�嵿�椸さ啶苦き啷嵿ぐ啶傕ざ啶� 啶曕�嬥お啶�啷嵿ぐ啶傕ざ啶距い啷嵿ぎ啶曕�� 啶�啶ム�� 啷�

akasm膩jj膩yate yatra bhayahar峁Ｄ乨ibh膩van膩 |
so'ya峁� 辫谤补蝉补峁単补惫颈产丑谤补峁兣沘岣� kopabhra峁兣浤乼mako yath膩 ||^[14]

When there is sudden fear, laughter etc then the anger is destroyed. This is called 辫谤补蝉补峁単补惫颈产丑谤补峁兣沘 or 谤补蝉腻苍迟补谤补 [谤补蝉腻苍迟补谤补m].

Example: 

啶膏え啷嵿い啷嵿く啷囙さ啶距い啷嵿ぐ 啶椸�冟す啷� 啶椸�冟す啷� 啶�啷佮さ啶むく啶膏�嵿い啶距�� 啶�啷冟�氞�嵿�� 啶椸い啷嵿さ啶距ぇ啷佮え啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啷囙く啶距�傕じ啶� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶｀ぎ啶ㄠ�嵿い啶� 啶曕た啶� 啶むさ 啶�啷佮え啶班�嵿う啶距じ啷� 啶�啶ム�� 啶掂ぐ啷嵿い啶む�� 啷�
啶嗋い啷嵿ぎ啶︵�嵿ぐ啷嬥す啶苦ぃ啶�! 啶︵�佮ぐ啷嵿�溹え啷堗�� 啶�啷嵿ぐ啶侧お啶苦い啶� 啶曕ぐ啷嵿ぃ啷囙そ啶ㄠた啶多�� 啶�啶� 啶曕�冟ぅ啶� -啶多�嵿�涏た啶ㄠ�嵿え啶膏�嵿え啷囙す啶班じ啶� 啶�啶掂え啷嵿い啶� 啶�啷佮ぐ啷佮し啶� 啶︵�佮�冟�栢ぞ啶ㄠ�佮さ啶班�嵿い啷嵿く啶距�� 啶�啷佮え啶� 啷�

santyev膩tra g峁沨e g峁沨e yuvatayast膩岣� p峁沜cha gatv膩dhun膩 prey膩峁僺a岣� pra峁嘺manti ki峁� tava punard膩so yath膩 vartate ||
膩tmadrohi峁噄! durjanai岣� pralapita峁� kar峁噀'ni艣a峁� m膩 k峁泃h膩 -艣chinnasneharas膩 bhavanti puru峁Ｄ� du岣�kh膩nuvarty膩岣� puna岣� ||^[15]

A sakhi tells the 苍补测颈办腻: There are women in every house. Go and ask them if their husbands fall at their feet like how your husband does. O 膧迟尘补诲谤辞丑颈峁噄 (one who cheats herslf) do not listen to the ravings of the bad. It is difficult to bring back a man who has lost interst.

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[1]:

搁补蝉补肠补苍诲谤颈办腻, 16.

[2]:

鈥淧orulatikaram of Tolkappiyam,鈥� IV. cliv. 107.

[3]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补 Tilaka, II. lxxviii. 60.

[4]:

Ibid., II. lxiv. 57.

[5]:

Ibid., I. liv. 13.

[6]:

Ibid., I. lv. 13.

[7]:

Ibid., II. lxviii. 58.

[8]:

Muvvagopala Padavali, 155.

[9]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补 Tilaka, II. lxvi. 58.

[10]:

Ibid., II. lxxii. 59.

[11]:

础尘补谤耻艣补迟补办补, xxxix. 63.

[12]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补 Tilaka, II. lxx. 59.

[13]:

搁补蝉补肠补苍诲谤颈办腻, 17.

[14]:

艢峁涐箙驳腻谤补 Tilaka, II. lxxiv. 60.

[15]:

础尘补谤耻艣补迟补办补, xci. 116.